Joan Brooks Baker
The Magnolia Code



We are constantly confronted with choice, a choice that often lies between the seductive path of safety and the riskier road of standards that we believe are our very own. The first path suggests that by following the rules of conduct, in this case, the unwritten "Magnolia Code," we will land in the mythical sphere of happiness. The latter path tells us that fulfillment in finding our true selves is the worthy goal but beware, the risk could place us on the outer rim of belonging. The essence of this story is in finding the balance.
- Joan Brooks Baker
Signed copies of The Magnolia Code are available in Santa Fe at
Joan's favorite local independent bookstore, Collected Works Bookstore.
Also available for purchase from your local bookstores or online.
To live outside “The Code,” was to question the rules of society that had governed families in the South for generations. To discover one’s unique identity and live life true to one’s self was not encouraged, especially for a girl.
The Magnolia Code
This is the story of Joan Brooks Baker. In her memoir, The Magnolia Code, a name she and her sister gave to the unwritten rules they were expected to live by, Baker takes the reader on her personal journey - growing up privileged as the Yankee daughter of dyed-in-the-wool Southerners, in the post–World War II New York City - to finding where she belonged, as a photographer, living in the high desert of New Mexico. The Magnolia Code decreed that appearances are more important than truth, and the desires of men always trump those of women. Neither sat well with Baker. She might have succumbed to the promise of easier safety the Magnolia Code offered; instead, she persevered in her desire to find her own way, navigating the paradox of the diverging paths of security offered by “the code” and her own sense of who she wanted to be in the world.
Within each chapter, Baker narrates her life story from childhood, as the feisty “Cactus Pete,” to the present day. She examines relationships within her primary and extended families, some amusing, some enlightening, many defying “the code” to find role models in rebellious women, including her Aunt Billie, who challenged her to be herself regardless of the consequences. Ultimately, Baker discovers who she is and where she belongs through her work as a photographer. As she witnesses and documents women’s lives in other cultures, she sees herself reflected in their eyes. She begins to make peace with her upbringing, to reject The Magnolia Code without abandoning her family heritage, to balance the darkness with light.
Baker’s memoir will find an audience with women all too familiar with the constraints of society, class, and a culture that has not honored their personal experiences. Baker’s tale, both humorous and poignant, of a woman coming into consciousness could not be more perfect for these times. The Magnolia Code is a current and universal story for those interested in exploring life’s dualities. Hear more from Joan.

Events


Photo by Joan Brooks Baker

Talks
11.9.2023
Santa Fe, NM
Santa Fe Public Library
Through the Lens of My Camera: The Essence of Woman
4.16.2024
New York City
The Century Association
Through the Lens of My Camera: The Essence of Woman
7.28.2023
Jaffrey, NH
Amos Fortune Forum
Through the Lens of My Camera: The Essence of Woman
9.21.2021
Philadelphia
The Acorn Club
View recording here
9.17.2021
Santa Fe, NM
Collected Works Bookstore
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1.12.2021
Pittsfield, MA
Miss Hall's School students & faculty